There are moments with my children that cause me to stop in complete awe. The shear fact that I had a part in creating a life is a miracle. However, to get those special moments where I am shown the magnificence of who they are in character, personality and heart is beyond amazing. I consider myself a very good mom, but each child is uniquely designed by God and for that I do not take credit.
It was a day I was having a hard day personally. I was dealing with some deep emotional hurts. I was in the midst of cleaning, when my husband and I went into our room where we talked and I shared and cried about what was on my heart. My son, J.J., 10 years old at the time, had some friends over. He came to our door to ask a question and we asked to have a few minutes. After we finished and left the room, I went back to the cleaning I had started.
J.J. came over to me and asked my why my eyes were red. I have always been honest with my children about feelings and emotions and I said, “I am just having a hard day and I am very sad, but Dad and I talked and I feel better.” He said with a concerned voice, “OK” and then left the room.
About 5 minutes later, he came over, took the broom out of my hand and said with an all-too-mature voice, “Mom, how about you take a break and we play a game?” I was so moved and nearly in tears. I became so aware of his naturally deep compassion and concern for others.
We played Scrabble with his friends, laughed and had a great time.
That is one moment I will cherish forever.
Jo Della Penna
Entrepreneur, Coach, National Speaker, Author
Jo@TheBusinessofYou.com
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